the tim woods story is definitely going to be used, with the quote from flair about how woods "saved" wrestling in the carolinas by showing up and wrestling when he had just been in a plane crash.
with the bret hart book, are you talking about the stomper coming over to the house, and the kids being scared because they hadn't been smartened up to the business yet, thinking he was coming to kill their dad? (sorry, my memory for this stuff isn't too great) i'm kind of looking for more "codes of conduct" type of things. that one seems more like "stu hart is a crazy guy" because he didn't clue his family in. unless this was a common, expected practice, that you were discouraged from even letting your family in on the secret. i didn't get that vibe, though. am i mistaken? because if so, that would be great, as it's absolutely outrageous. the other one i keep thinking of is the story about fritz von erich, when he put the claw on a tv reporter interviewing him, and the guy freaked out and clamped onto his testicles, and fritz had to pretend it wasn't killing him because the camera was still rolling. again, a great story, but it's more of a funny anecdote about this thing that happened to this one guy than it is displaying a specific rule.
i'm thinking of common practices in wrestling culture that relate to "protecting the business" that, to an outsider, would seem ridiculous or unnecessary. that's why the watts thing (which i guess i dreamed up) seemed so perfect- that he wouldn't be telling guys "don't get in fights" so much as he was telling them "you better win fights or you're fired" because the illusion of legitimacy is always the biggest concern, and it would be actually verbalized as a rule. and i realize that that would have been an extreme example, but i felt like it would have been perfectly acceptable to present it as representative of the nature of kayfabe, and the intense pressure to "protect" wrestling.